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30,412 notes - 7 minutes ago

bugchat:

the word ‘bisexuality’ is a taboo

it isn’t said on tv. orange is the new black, for example, features a bisexual protagonist who points out the biphobia at one point in assuming she can’t be attracted to multiple genders, but no one Ever says the word and she is ignored and referred to as a straight girl or a lesbian depending on the situation

other bisexual characters later turn out to have been Really Monosexual All Along. or are attractive, promiscuous women with commitment issues

this isn’t a coincidence.

people who are attracted to multiple genders, when asked about it, often describe themselves as “Fluid”. “I’d rather not label it.” “I don’t need to define it.” “It’s just whatever.” as if people are afraid of even implying the b word (EDIT: PLEASE READ CLARIFICATION HERE i did not mean to imply fluid is a bad term on its own. it really isn’t. not wanting to label yourself isn’t a bad thing either.)

this isn’t a coincidence.

the word ‘bisexual’ gets you different reactions in different places. straight people think you’re either faking for attention or a deviant. straight men are afraid of bi men and think bi women are just particularly promiscuous straight girls who want to have threesomes with them

gay men accuse bi men of being in the closet. lesbians accuse bi women of being straight girls going through a phase. and the ones who don’t do either of these things still often assume bisexuals are promiscuous, indecisive, and can’t settle down.

the theme throughout is that bisexually is illegitimate, deceptive, and always a front for something else.

this isn’t a coincidence

people are constantly encouraged to ‘settle down’, to ‘just pick one’, to ‘not be greedy’. abandon bisexuality. you’re really gay. you’re really straight. you’re too young. how can you know you’re bisexual at 16? 18? 20? 25?

this isn’t a coincidence

the word ‘bisexuality’ is constantly, persistently manipulated, by people who aren’t bisexual at all. the meaning twisted on shallow rationale. accused of being transphobic, or of being exclusionary. this has been happening for over 20 years now despite the existence of outspoken trans and/or non-binary bisexuals. whatever they can do to make you not say the word. pick a different one.

this isn’t a coincidence

bisexual people - whether implied or literally, deliberately saying they are bisexual using the word - are constantly rewritten as gay or as straight. gay icon. he was never interested in men. bi actor comes out? headlines say ‘came out as gay’, or articles outright ignore it

it’s never, ever a coincidence. bi erasure is a constant, ongoing thing.

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209,070 notes - 8 minutes ago

metalheadswaltzing:

mcgonagirl:

kdaziz:

purgatoilet:

beenwandering:

help I’m having emotions about a cartoon antidepressant trying to be useful

DID YOU GUYS SERIOUSLY GIF AN ABILIFY COMMERCIAL 

yes but look at it, it cares about her and just wants to help her be able to function. It’s like “I know you’re sad. here, I’ll help you.”

LIKE OKAY THOUGH can I explain why this is exceedingly brilliant??  Because when anti-depressants work right, that’s what they DO.  They don’t make you happy or emotionless or unhealthy in any way, they make you FUNCTIONAL.  They make it so that a depressed person who can barely get out of bed can start to support themselves again and more importantly, start to THINK for themselves again without the permeating presence of depression.

Depression is a cyclical disease, that tells you to think a certain way, and, because you’re depressed, you generally believe it, and then things get worse and worse.  The ONLY thing anti-depressants do is to STOP that cycle in its tracks!!  Which is something to be ecstatic about and celebrated, even if you don’t realize it at the time, because when you’re depressed, getting out of bed is climbing Mount Everest.  Antidepressants help stop that cycle so that one day soon, getting out of bed can JUST be getting out of bed.  They don’t even expedite the recovery process in most cases, they just make recovery POSSIBLE IN THE FIRST PLACE.  So this little guy is portrayed with a fuckton more accuracy than I ever expected from a commercial.

It’s back and adorable

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214,595 notes - 25 minutes ago

ethanwykes:

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necrophilofthefuture:

did you know that phill lewis (aka mr moseby) was charged with manslaughter in 1993

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24,566 notes - 25 minutes ago

idiotsonfb:

fuckyeahidiotonfacebook:

now don’t you wish your friends would do shit like this for you?

that was EPIC

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266,090 notes - 26 minutes ago

chemicalaccess:

can-u-not-my-wayward-son:

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nepeter:

im really mad because boobs sounds too hilarious, tits sounds too vulgar, breasts too pretentious and any other words just make me want to laugh

what word am i supposed to use while writing

rumble spheres

wibbly wobbly booby woobies

tatty-bo-jangles

human milk sacks

pillows for friends

sweater puppets

breasticles

boing boing bags

chesticles

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169,667 notes - 4 hours ago

queerchesters:

arterialspurt:

queerchesters:

fun date idea: Go down on me while I shop online with ur credit card

I don’t think someone could focus on the internet while I was going down on them.

you over estimate your skill and underestimate the joy of shopping

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2,059 notes - 4 hours ago

thickerthanectoplasm:

I had to

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28 notes - 4 hours ago

tom-sits-like-a-whore:

keyofnik:

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8bittheatrics replied to your photo: “A 1000% accurate look inside my head right this second.”:
If she messes it up, Mama will scold her! She already lost her (dessert fund) allowance because of her tests! So due to subconscious need, she kind of accidentally wrecks Naru’s room every time she’s over, which is quite often. Poor Naru.

I’m all-in with the general tidiness (ie: no clothes on the floor) being an Ikuko driven thing. It’s literally the only way I can begin to make sense of it. I’m with Ikuko and daily battles to keep shit off the floor.

But the SPARSENESS of it kills me. It doesn’t look like the personal space of someone as vivacious and full of life as Usagi, and every time I see it, it bugs me a little more.

I know I talked about this in Crystal Episode 1 as well, but how is there nothing exhibiting Usagi’s personality in here? Usagi is totally the type who would see some adorable and completely useless little tchotchke and spend half of her allowance on it as an impulse. Where are the cute bunny statues that Usagi was certain were made just for her? Where’s the stuffed penguin with the off-center face that made her laugh? Where’s the stack of journals with pretty covers where Usagi tries to keep a diary for like three pages before giving up, until the next journal with a pretty cover? Where are the pictures of her friends in novelty frames?

I mean I’m looking at this:

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And especially leaping out at me is this:

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LOOK AT THAT SPACE

Look at all that space around that whatever the hell this is.

I can’t see Usagi as someone who would delicately place this box thing on a shelf and stand back and call it done. She’d have that space LOADED with shit. Every open space is an opportunity for Usagi to shove more shit that she loves. However I headcanon that Ikuko comes in and tidies up, this room should still SCREAM Usagi. At best, it whispers “Usagi’s nana”.

I’m pretty much never going to reconcile this room with Usagi, and it’s going to bug the hell out of me every time we see it.

I would reexamine Usagi’s room once the season is out on DVD. Usually the animators go back and add details they didn’t have time to add the first time around due to deadlines. In fact I’d wager the overall animation quality will go up a bit for the DVD, but I definitely think they’ll add more too Usagi’s room.

123,288 notes - 6 hours ago

parallelanprincess:

ahirukaizoku:

Jennifer Saunders (Fairy Godmother) - Holding Out for A Hero

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this is my 5th most played song on my ipod

no regrets

This is still one of the best songs in animated history

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